Thursday, June 30, 2016

Camp, 2016 (Part 1)


Last week the girls went to day camp at a local methodist camp. The girls had not attended for the last couple of years due to busy summers and other conflicts, but they were eager to return. This year their age group moved up to overnight camp, but because they hadn't been in a while, they opted for one more year of day camp.

When I picked them up the first day, they requested to spend the night. Unfortunately, making a last minute change isn't really allowable or practical, but they will be ready to spend the night next year. Lauren and Grace are both excellent eaters when it comes to nutrition. However, do you remember the experience of eating spaghetti at a friend's house when you were a kid? Sure, everyone likes spaghetti, and it's universal. Even the most kid-friendly food can suddenly seem foreign when someone else's mom makes it. Perhaps it's a different sauce or some pasta experimentation, but it can seem like a real curve ball in the mind of a child. That's how the girls feel about camp food. On paper, it's fine... pizza, sandwiches, etc., but something is a little off, i.e., not what they are used to having. I had encouraged them to take a sandwich the first day, but they refused. Upon reconnecting in the afternoon, they both ordered sandwiches for the next day. When we were talking about overnight camp, Grace pondered aloud, "I'm gonna have to take a lot of sandwiches with me..."

Grace believes in always being prepared.

The campers hiked, swam, went canoeing, played games and created a lot of crafts. They also learned about Jesus and sang songs of praise. They had a fantastic time and will likely be taking an overnight trunk with them next year - complete with food.




Monday, June 27, 2016

Weekend Update




On this beautiful Monday I had the realization that the trio have been out of school for slightly over a month now. We are kicking off week five of summer break, and we are inching a little closer to the end. Instead of dwelling on this, I'm going to Scarlett O'Hara the calendar and think about that tomorrow... or sometime after William George's birthday in a few weeks.

We good weekend. George and I picked up the girls Friday, and they were exhausted from camp. In addition to camp, they had a friend sleep over Wednesday night, and although they all three did really well about going to bed at a reasonable hour, it was a little later than usual. On Thursday, the duo had a daddy/daughter date night when the friend from Wednesday and her dad. Of course, George crashed along for the fun. Although the evening was pretty tame and ended at a reasonable hour, they were tired on Friday from all the day time and evening fun.




We picked up Grammie Saturday for a visit. The trio played with Grammie, and we watched movies. For dinner, we took Grammie to one of her favorite restaurants, situated beautifully on Lake Guntersville. We had a great meal while looking out over the lake. The next day we went to church, took Grammie home, and then the trio visited with Gran and Poppa. They love a weekend with grandparent double billing! Skip and I had a nice lunch and then ran a few birthday-related errands for George's birthday (July 12th). George has been very low key about birthday plans so far. He doesn't want a cake... he doesn't want a bounce house... and he doesn't want a water slide. He has rejected all proposed themes, and he is heading toward a fairly generic fifth birthday. He had a large party last year so we had been planning something smaller this year, but we weren't planning on it being a non-event.



But so while Skip and I were planning some things out I had an epiphany. Actually, I saw a stuffed Nemo (whom he loves, upon recent discovery), and I had the brilliant plan to incorporate Dory as the centerpiece of his party. Now, mind you, I was very hot. Our church service that morning was held in the gym which is normally fine, but was about 80 degrees yesterday. Then, we were outside for about 20 minutes at Skip's parents, which isn't long except for the sweltering heat. For some reason, we just never cooled off. While standing in an aisle at Wal-Mart, I said/asked the following to Skip:

"Are you sweating? I am SWEATING! I'm just standing here in an air conditioned building... sweating!"

I blame the heat on our unclear thinking. By the time we left that particular store, I had the whole birthday planned out. We would get him a stuffed Nemo and Dory... we would have the party (lunch/cake/presents) and then go see the movie. I even picked up Dory plates and accessories.

So walking to the car, I asked another question:

"Wait. Is Dory a girl? It is, isn't it? Dory is a girl!!!"

&%$#!

The wretched heat! We have two words for you... Nova Scotia. We were looking at the map and tourism information last night. We think we would like it there.

So now I have to take the Dory stuff back. Now, if you have a son or boy in your family who loves Dory, that is totally fine with me. In fact, I applaud it. We aren't super gender specific around here either. At this point, however, William George would care if his birthday theme was based on a girl character. He just would, and since the day is his celebration, we are scrubbing Dory.






You would think this plan would be salvageable by inserting a boy-centric movie, but he vetoed the movie plan altogether.

After the birthday errands (most of which were productive/successful), we picked up the monkeys and came home to prepare for their camp session this week.

How was your weekend?

Friday, June 24, 2016

Enumerated Update

Today is the girls' last day at camp this week, but they go to another day camp beginning Monday. They have had so much fun and have been kicking themselves for not signing up for overnight camp this year. There's always next year, right?

In between two camp sessions, here are a few things on our minds:

1) Wedding Season: We are long past having friends get married, but I sure love catching glimpses of summer weddings on social media. Such happy times! If you have a wedding on your calendar this summer, here are some good Do's/Don'ts to keep in mind.

2) Related: The clever ladies from Man Repeller also provided guidance for writing wedding speeches.

3) Sweet Tea: Now that summer is officially here, we can enjoy all the goodness of summer - including a perfect glass of iced tea. We gave up sweetening our tea about a year ago, but this tutorial makes me want to break that rule for a special occasion. The founding fathers would want us to have sweetened tea on July 4th, right?

4) Color of the Year: What are your thoughts about Pantone's Color(s) of the year? Officially, the COY is the combination of Rose Quartz and Serenity.



5) Fake Obits: Y'all... I love these so much.  

Have a wonderful weekend.

  


Thursday, June 23, 2016

Things We Love: Card Stock Stationery


I used to always keep a supply of card stock stationery on hand -- really on hand, because they usually sit beside a little organization/office area in the kitchen. These casual, everyday note cards were perfect for quick notes and hand-crafted greeting cards from the children (and even us!). In a pinch, we could drop them down into a gift bag to accompany a present. When Lauren and Grace became writers, they depleted these boxes faster than I could purchase them, and I sort of fell out of the habit. 

Last spring, I picked up a box again, and we have used them for birthday cards (the trio usually draw a picture on the front and write a message on the back), for cards for teachers during Teacher Appreciation Week, and for end-of-year thank you notes. 

We have nicer stationery, and we purchase greeting cards for special occasions. However, this cheery box of informal cards is once again our go-to for sending out messages.  

The above cards are available at Target for approximately $14.00/200 cards.


Wednesday, June 22, 2016

Allergy Update

George had his annual appointment with his allergist last Thursday. Because he had not been tested in a couple of years, Dr. L recommended a re-test to see if George had "grown out" of any allergies. As of the last testing, he was allergic to peanuts, tree nuts, eggs, soy and some dyes. We knew this was coming so I had prepped George by reminding him that he had been tested at 1) six months and 2) two years old and that he did not cry once during the process. Testing is surprisingly painless, and George has never voiced a complaint. So we started with the testing, and he did great, as is his normal response. When the nurse had finished with testing, he said, "Now you cannot scratch. It is going to itch badly, but no scratching."

Like most of us, George is very suggestible so, although he has never said testing made him itch before, he complained about itching almost immediately. So... I blew on his back non-stop for twenty minutes while he watched Scooby Doo episodes on his iPad. He has us well-trained, and I was very light-headed.

But I could hardly argue with him about the itching, even with the negative itching history, because his poor back looked like this:



The upshot is that George's soy allergy has resolved! That's fantastic because most food additives are soy based. The peanut and tree nut allergies are still severe, and Dr. L explained that only 15% of patients "grow out" of nut allergies. Barring a miracle, George is likely stuck with those. They can draw blood to determine to which "part" of the peanut he is allergic and from there they can make an estimate of how severe the allergy is (and make additional estimates on how dangerous his response would be), but Dr. L indicated that the blood test would be redundant given his reaction to topical application. He would have a severe response.

However, the medical community is working to solve the nut allergy. Currently, the standard has been shifted, and they recommend introducing peanut butter to three month old babies so that they become accustomed - an immunity, if you will, to peanuts - before the allergy forms. For older children who have already acquired the allergy, they are working on a peanut patch enabling the introduction of peanut at very, very low doses to try to very gradually become accustomed to the peanut. Through a series of progressive patch exposure, a patient can very slowly work up to trying to eat a single peanut. They aren't hopeful that they can take a patient from allergic reaction to regular peanut consumption, but minimizing/eliminating severe reaction would be life-saving in the event of accident exposure/ingestion. Exciting times for allergies.

Finally, Dr. L thinks George might be ready to try a food challenge. His response to egg has minimized a little so we may try him eating some eggs in the office to see if he can tolerate ingestion. Of course, Dr. L and his staff will be available for any adverse response, and George is eager to add eggs to his routine.




Monday, June 20, 2016

Weekend Update



Happy first day of summer, friends! William George and I are sitting on the deck having a delicious snack of Goldfish crackers, after having dropped Grace and Lauren off for summer camp. Until we pick them up this afternoon at 5:30pm, we have the place to ourselves. George has already completed several pages in his workbooks, and I have ordered new books because they are from last summer. George has played on the playground, and now we are taking a break. (In reality, I paused for the break, and he is now swinging again.)



How was your weekend? Ours was lovely. The girls went swimming with a friend last Friday to help her celebrate turning nine, and George and I ran errands. We are bracing for another piping hot summer and have turned our attention to anything that will help us stay cool. Accordingly, George was ready for some type of pool. We usually swim at the Y, but that doesn't exactly help them stay cool here at home when they want to play outside. Although the girls are too old for any type of kiddie pool, I was intrigued by this, the run-away hit of the year for backyard inflatables:



Have you seen this? It's kind of a lounger, and I thought maybe the girls would consent to at least sitting in the pool periodically to cool off. The pool, aptly named the "family lounger" was available at Wal-Mart and has flown off the shelves. It looks very cool, except I am going to have to take exception to the name, since the dad in the photo looks as if he has even an inch of water covering  him. While I definitely do not buy into the whole "family" part of the sales pitch, I am hopeful that it will fit a couple of nine year olds.

So I ordered one online, except there were only about four available in my city and none available for online purchase. Long story short, I nabbed one of the remaining few, and George and I took a short road trip to scoop it up.

We spent Saturday morning celebrating our neighbor's birthday. Actually, when I got up Saturday morning, she and George were on the sofa watching Teen Beach Movie so we had a visit, and then we joined their family for the party later. After some waterslide fun and birthday cupcakes, we went to Gran and Poppa's for a Father's Day lunch. After a good visit with them, we called it a day.




We went to the conventional service on Sunday so the girls could serve as acolytes. Afterward, we took Skip to lunch for Father's Day, although he picked a pizza place because he knew everyone would love it. In a continued display of selflessness, he treated the trio to shave ice on the way home. We did give him some goodies, and everyone allowed him a huge rarity -- an indulgent nap!




Friday, June 17, 2016

Enumerated Update

Celebrating the end of basketball camp


Welcome to Friday.

Grace and Lauren have been dribbling and shooting every day this week during basketball camp from 9:00 am until noon. This camp was put on by a local high school girls' basketball team, and our duo were inspired by the skill of those high school girls. We noted improvement with their shooting, passes and just overall speed/efficiency.  After a hard week of camp, they had an off day today and went with a friend to the pool to celebrate her birthday. William George and I were busy with errands and coordinating "crashes" with his car collection.

Other than that, here is the sitch:

1) Facebook Hiatus: Imagine if your loving family and awesome group of friends liked a particular restaurant - one that you found mediocre at best but really kind of disliked - and wanted to hang out there regularly. Now substitute Facebook for that restaurant. I barely like the platform and only peek at it because that is where everyone hangs out. I'm sure it's no different than anything else on the Internet, but I have never fully warmed to it.

But then maybe you kind of got used to the stale bread they serve and the soda with the poorly mixed carbonation/syrup ratios.  You just got used to it and went there out of habit.

Now imagine there's an election year... and that there is a lot of anger, misinformation and buffoonery.

Now imagine there's a national tragedy, and that there are a lot of ill-thought-out solutions for preventing future, additional tragedies (that we now know are going to happen several times each year). Now imagine a lot of anger, hostility and hate.

Imagine certain members of the spiritual community contributing to that hate.

Imagine reading about it all the livelong day.

Although there are certainly good, admirable things happening in the world right now, there is little evidence of that in my feed.

That's not entirely fair... the good is just being drowned out.

So basically I need to scale back. Unfortunately, a lot of school, extra-curricular and other family information is disseminated via Facebook so bowing out of it altogether is not really viable.  Also, I truly enjoy looking at all of the beautiful families and accomplishments. But, I definitely need less toxicity.

Less Facebook, more books. That's my mantra.

2) Candid Photo Round-Up: On a lighter note, I loved Design Sponge's post about candid photos. Candid photos were my among my favorites of the trio when they were younger. Capturing the joy of their play time was my absolute fave.

3) Berry Freedom Floats: I always have plans for red, white and blue desserts for the 4th, but Liz at Say Yes shares a really simple one that looks delicious.

4) One more: She also had a round up of dinner options that look very tempting. I'm especially interesting in the Barbacoa Tacos.

Peace, love and light to you and yours this weekend.





Thursday, June 16, 2016

Vacation Bible School 2016



Last week was one of our favorites of the summer - the week of Vacation Bible School! This was George's second year, and the girls' sixth. Each day, the trio arrived promptly at 9:00am to say pledges, sing the "Submerged" songs and then make their way to class. They came home at noon, chattering happily about everything they learned.

By the time "parent night" rolled around, George was getting tired and had dark circles under his eyes to prove it. They finished out the week, and on the last day, Auntie Melinda dropped them off in the church bus - coolest thing ever!



Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Weekend Update

Remembering all who are hurting as a result of the incident in Orlando.  

We had a wonderful summer weekend. After our bout with illness, everyone's appetite finally returned so we decided to have a family date night Friday, and we took everyone out for barbecue. The next day the trio had a visit with their grandparents, while Skip and I ran some errands and had a lunch date. Our errand involved picking up a new pair of sunglasses for Skip after he left his behind at a softball game, and they were nabbed. Did I mention it was a church softball game? Those sneaky baptists! (Just kidding... I mean, it was a church softball game on a baptist field and all, but I wouldn't be able to vouch for our denomination either. :) 

After a light dinner, the crew was starving again Sunday after church so we went, en familia, to California Pizza Kitchen, where the trio devoured some pizza. We were home later when our adorable next door neighbor asked if the trio could come play. We haven't seen her in about three weeks, what with being sick, being on vacation and then being at Vacation Bible School. Sweet L has a birthday coming up, and her mom was looking at water slide rental. After doing some quick calculating, she purchased a smaller one for the price of rental. That's a pro move. They had the slide up and running, and the monkeys had the best time. Later that evening, we joined another set of neighbors for dinner. After trying to work out a time for a couple of months, we finally connected and had the best time.  

We had a perfect summer weekend and are so looking forward to more.  

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Vacation: Sanibel Island




We spent last week on Sanibel Island, in South Florida. Sanibel is about an hour north of Marco Island, where we vacationed a couple of times previously. 

Sanibel and Captiva Islands, connected by a causeway, are not at all commercial. When the bridge connecting the islands to the mainland was completed in the 1960's, a movement followed to preserve the island. There are only two fast food restaurants on the island - a very old Dairy Queen and a Subway - and tall structures were forbidden. There are many other protections in place which have kept wildlife secure. For example, on our property, we saw several rabbits, as well as a large tortoise that, according to other guests, will eat from your hand.  

As the lack of commercial development indicates, these islands are very quiet and even more so when one visits during the off season, like we did. (High season is December to March.) Of course, we like quiet, and the trio loved it as well. Sanibel is very nice, but Captiva, with its fabled "Millionaire Row," is decidedly upscale. Given that demographic, there are many good restaurants from which to choose.  





Sanibel Island is routinely listed as one of the best shelling beaches in the United States, and tops the national lists as well. Although residents of Marco Island had assured us that their shells were just as impressive, we remained skeptical, and therefore, had to get our "Sanibel stoop" on for ourselves and check out their unique offerings. Being totally objective, we found the Sanibel beaches to be superior (e.g., clear water, clean beaches) to those of Marco, although that could be attributable to the time of year we visited. As for the shelling, Grace's Marco Island collection is vastly superior to her findings from Sanibel. Sorry, Sanibel. 

A further note on beaches, Sanibel's were gorgeous - stunning, even - but the beaches of Captiva were so brilliantly beautiful that they looked like a postcard. I have not been to the South of France, but Captiva's beaches must surely rival those. The downside to Captiva is there appeared to be only one place to stay, unless you are in the market to rent a mansion for the week.  




As for us and how we spent our time, we really tried to take it easy, having been under the weather immediately prior to the trip. We adapted to "island time" immediately and let go of the need to be busy. George purchased a frisbee within the first five minutes of being on the island, and he spent a good portion of his time perfecting his form. Lauren picked up a volleyball, and the girls spent their time working on their volleyball skills.





The oversized floats were perfect for navigating a gentle rip tide that was moving trio safely down the shore. 



Again, the many preservation measures afforded to Sanibel create a safe environment for wildlife. Grace got to see lots of different birds during our stay. 






Again, there are no high-rise buildings... just lots of residences nestled in the mangroves. 


George liked to keep his frisbee sand-free, which led to lots of rinsing.  


George nailed the perfect glide.  






Skip also taught him the art of throwing the frisbee and having it return, like a boomerang.







There weren't an abundance of seagulls. Maybe the pelicans kept them contained.  







There are many creatures in the water here. Lots of stingrays (Skip accidentally stepped on a few), and hundreds of sand dollars. Skip didn't disclose anything else, or I probably would have curtailed swimming with the creatures.  I only know about the stingray first hand because one was caught and the barb removed a few feet from my chair.  




Grace brought me this adorable baby sand dollar, not realizing that it was alive. We photographed it, and then safely returned him to his habitat.  I can certainly appreciate sea life from afar, but up close, it gives me the willies.  



We would alternate between the ocean and pool each day and would swim until just before dusk. While present during daytime hours, the island breeze calms at night (a weather pattern that is peculiar to certain times of the year), and when the breeze calms, "no-see-ums" are ever-present. I mean, they will cover you. After the first night and a quick internet search to confirm that this is, indeed, a peculiarity to the island, we picked up a can of Off Deep Woods, with Deet (40%!), but often opted to go inside before the near invisible bugs make their presence known. This was an endearing quirk that we did not experience on Marco.

The trio often read on the screened in deck, overlooking the ocean, while we cooked.  





  The next three were taken on Captiva... gorgeous.  






 In our rush to get packed and leave, we made it to the beach with multiple bathing suits, but Lauren only had one rash guard shirt, while Grace had none. She wore one of mine, as a rash dress, for the week.  That was a relatively small hiccup in light of packing/leaving while sick. We planned to pick up a couple of new shirts, but we never got around to it because of all the swimming and beaching. I promise they have more than two suits. 












We went out a few times, and George was especially proud of fixing his own hair on those nights.




Without the exception of three other kids and a couple of adults, the trio had the pool to themselves. They enjoyed making friends but also having plenty of space to play. The adults we met included identical sisters (adults) who had been coming to the island for decades. In addition to being an informative local resource, the girls were fascinated, telling them that they are "nocturnal" as opposed to identical. Although they are sometimes nocturnal, they are actually fraternal.  











Until next time, Sanibel.